Good Stewardship of Your Influence

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In a sermon series, Pastor Benny Ho, a well-known pastor in the Asia region and a senior pastor of Faith Community Church in Perth, Australia said that “there is a difference between prominence and significance”, which switched my thinking light bulb on in relation to this month’s series.

Very often, we talk about stewardship of our time, talents and finances. However, one area that I find rarely mentioned (except otherwise in the context of leadership). In the marketplace, being a leader and having the authority is equated to having some form of influence. I started to think, what about ordinary folks like us?

From my observation, this is rarely discussed because majority of us feel that the season that we are currently – our vocation, relationship or social status in life and even our finances are in no way able to make any significant impact. Just like adding a drop of water into the ocean, it literally doesn’t make any difference because we are neither wealthy, famous nor attractive enough to have the platform of influence.

However, I hope to challenge your perspective as well as my own to see through God’s perspective. Although one drop of water doesn’t make significant impact pertaining to the volume (in the ocean), but what it does is that it create ripples on the surface of the water. This analogy shows me that the job that I have now, the community that I am in contact with now and my relationship status today in this season of my life truly matter to God on how I steward my influence.

Lisa Bevere (a successful preacher and best-selling author) said “God invites us to work with what He’s already given us. To those who are faithful, He entrusts more. It’s how His kingdom operates.” That is a powerful statement and inspiring.

If we are to pay more attention to the meaning of our existence and the people around us, realizing that we DO have the capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behavior of someone or something in small ordinary ways hence the proclivity of doing something silly that we will eventually regret or allowing ourselves to just drift away with the worldly concerns, comparisons and emptiness – in summary, self centeredness can be avoided.

Our significance as daughters of god is not found in the prominence defined by the world. Just because we are not achieved the ‘status’ of being a wife, a mother, a business owner, a minister or a politician does not mean that our influence cannot bring significance to the world around us.

Zechariah 4:10 says “Do not despise these small beginning, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.” Your sphere of influence is what God has entrusted you with, cherish it and steward it in such a way that would add value to the world around you.

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timmie-liew Timmie

Hello, my name is Timmie and I’m from Malaysia. I am a lawyer by profession. I am a charismatic, passionate person and enjoy beautiful things in life such as travelling to different cities to appreciate the culture. I love fashion and appreciate ‘coffee time’ with people to talk about life and build meaningful relationships. I’m passionate about the things of God, the Church and authentic leadership. My deepest desire is to embrace all that God has called me to be and be a blessing to whoever that God has placed in my life past, present and future. Our God is a GREAT God, and the best is yet to come !🙂

The Best Investment

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Hi!  My name is Roz and I have a budget.  There are line items for tithes and offerings, mortgage, utilities, student loans, contributing to my IRA, and all those amazing things that take your money as you get older. Adulting. Is. So. Much. Fun.

And as we grow up and learn the lessons of life, we keep track of where our money is going and where it’s coming from.  We listen to sermons and Dave Ramsey the heck out of being good stewards over our finances.  But rarely does anyone tell you the cost of not being a good steward over the one thing you came into this world with – your body.

God has put in eternal effort and endless time crafting bodies that are fearfully and wonderfully made, but we allow others to make withdrawals that they didn’t earn and can never repay.  Now to those of you reading this who have never crossed physical boundaries in relationships, do you think the breakdowns you’ve allowed in emotional and spiritual barriers are any less expensive?

No matter the line crossed, we’ve all been there.  Feeling as if pieces of us are missing after every break up or failed relationship.  It’s only natural to give of yourself when taking the risk of getting to know a significant (or insignificant) other.  And I’m not trying to make you feel hopeless or fear condemnation.  Because I serve a God who can replace all that’s been lost and repair what’s been broken.

But before you tether yourself to another, whether physically, emotionally, or spiritually, outside of marriage.  Ask yourself, what are you worth?  Are you willing to pay the price of regret, shame, and heartbreak?  Our minds, hearts, and bodies should be bound to Christ and his promises.  I’m not saying it’s easy or even easily attainable, but the price He paid has established this as the best investment you’ll ever make.

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roz Roz

Hey there!  My name is Roz.  I’m a full time working, single, homeschooling mother to the world’s funniest 5 year old on the planet.  I’m an introvert who is obsessed with bacon.  I like to play music extremely loudly in my car and will keep singing at full voice even when you turn to stare.  I also blog occasionally over at beautyfullyflawed.com where I write words about Jesus, homeschooling, and the beauty of imperfections.  I look forward to sharing my imperfections with you, as well.

He Is Risen!

Happy Easter

When the Sabbath was over, Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James, and Salome bought spices so that they might go to anoint Jesus’ body. Very early on the first day of the week, just after sunrise, they were on their way to the tomb and they asked each other, “Who will roll the stone away from the entrance of the tomb?”

But when they looked up, they saw that the stone, which was very large, had been rolled away. As they entered the tomb, they saw a young man dressed in a white robe sitting on the right side, and they were alarmed.

“Don’t be alarmed,” he said. “You are looking for Jesus the Nazarene, who was crucified. He has risen! He is not here. See the place where they laid him. But go, tell his disciples and Peter, ‘He is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see him, just as he told you.’”

-Mark 16:1-7